Woman is a unique creature

When people heard or see something ridiculous, they immediately assume and tolerate it as they said: "aahh.. woman".

Yes, as we grow up there are a lot of stereotypes growing and involving as time goes by. For me personally, that kind of thing has made me unconsciously set up one stereotype of women from myself.

Of course, to make it clear, the theories must be tested and witnessed from the attraction of men and women, specifically in relationships.

I am not the kind of romantic person or exaggerating love as an uneducational person would do. I am also very cringy looking at other people's relationships. Nevertheless, as I went through intimate human relations, there are some fucked up realities I have to accept.

Who should call first?

Before two people make a serious commitment, boys tend to take the first chance to call the girl they like first. There are some reasons that came up in my mind, even if I am still unsure. First, maybe they do not want to be seen as a coward. Second, there is a theory going on about men must have the first move. Third, the lady asks first and gives the code first, because they understand most women do not like to be seen as aggressive.

Surprisingly, this term will come to an end eventually, folks. Especially when a relationship has going on for quite a time, a man's interest in calling his lover first eventually decreased. Assume you already own something and keep it in your drawer, you do not have to put the key on it or check it from time to time if it is still there.

When I felt that I need that, I need someone who cares for me, who still treats me when we were still madly in love, to be called. It hurts for me that am I the only person who felt that. Why are men as they are called to be chill people, do not have that torturing feeling when the girl does not call them because every second of their life and days, they actually want to call their man and they always do?

It is unfair.

Sometimes I want to be like them. To be careless. But you know how girls are. They are sensitive and highly empathic. It is good. But also bad.

I hate waiting for him to call first.